Getting the attention of a woman is one thing; however, sustaining that attention and converting it life-long love is a different ball-game altogether. To achieve the latter one needs to understand how women fall in love. Only then can you make a relationship last really long.
In today’s post, we will share with you everything we know about how women fall in love, how it changes them, and also how one can ensure a woman remains in love with them.
Applying what you learn here, is sure to help you build a loving relationship which endures the cruelty of time. You can thank us later.
How to attract a woman’s attention in 2 simple steps
- Through good conversations
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Approaching the girl you like, can be a little tricky. You need to maintain the right balance, since you don’t want to come on too hard while also not appearing arrogant. When it comes to starting a conversation and also maintaining it, the main trick is to be as genuine as possible. Fakery is the most off-putting thing in anybody. Before starting the conversation, decide what it is that you are going to talk about. Remember this might be your only chance to make a good first impression, and therefore, you need to nail it. Once the tête-à-tête has begun, let it flow smoothly. Don’t think too much about what to topic to transition to.
- Don’t be a jerk
Easiest way to catch your girl’s eye is by not being a jerk. Be humble. Be mindful of your body language. Sometimes the body language says it all, and so you need to be careful that you give out positive vibes. If you think she is not interested in you, then stop pursuing her. Will this make her want you? Most probably no, but at least she will know you are a good person and that is always a good thing.
How to maintain the relationship
Now that the girl of your dreams has fallen for you, how do you ensure the love ensures? Who can say that time will not fade what the two of you have got, right? Here are a few tips, however, that will help you maintain the relationship as long as possible.
- Show you appreciation
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For anyone, appreciation is what makes them know that they are loved. And our love naturally flows toward the people who love us, right? So, to keep your woman happy and in love with you, don’t just appreciate her in your head. Tell her what she means to you. Show her the gratitude you feel having her in your life. Appreciation is all about accepting the other person for who they are, celebrating them for who they are, warts and all.
- Remain true to her and yourself
Honesty has a charm that will never fade away. Maintaining a relationship involves a lot of sacrifices and compromises, but one should never stop being who they intrinsically are. So, it is important you know who you are or want to be. Be honest about it with your girl. Hiding your truth is not going to help in building a strong relationship. By letting your girl know your intentions and letting her share hers with you, will contribute greatly in creating a bond that cannot be broken easily.
- Be best friends with your woman
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All intimate relationships thrive when the two people can rely on each other like they were best friends. So stop being just her lover; be her PIC, aka, partner in crime! Be the person she goes to when needs a human she can trust most. Simple.
- Keep reinventing yourself and the relationship
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As soon as things get stale, people start falling out of love. Therefore, it is both on you and her to keep things fresh. You cannot expect to have the same routine for years together and expect the attraction to stay the same. Surprise your woman. Take trips together (that, according to us, is the best way to learn new things about yourself and each other). You need to do fun stuff together so that you automatically associate good and happy things with your relationship.
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- Don’t be critical all the time
We don’t always need advice. Sometimes all we need is a hand to hold, an ear to listen, and a heart to understand. There is a time to speak out and a time to remain silent. True wisdom comes from knowing the difference. And this difference can make or break a healthy relationship.” – Unknown
Though disagreements strengthening the relationship, too many of them, can wreck it. Yes, it is all about the balance. Sometimes, you need to be the person who stays silent and here’s the other one out; you need to be the person who allows his or her partner to pour their heart out; you need to be the person who understands. And you need to expect the same from your partner.
- Stop being selfish
If you are being selfish in a relationship, then in all probability, you are always to be ‘the priority’! Now, you have to change that as soon as possible if you want to enjoy a healthy and joyful bond with your significant other. The next time you catch yourself doing this, it could be while you are discussing important matters or deciding where to go on a holiday; stop and let the other have a say in what he or she wants to. Don’t be the one who is always thinking “me, me, me” and wants everything first, like a spoilt kid! You have to keep in mind that your partner is as special as you are and they too deserve to get what they want.
Make a list of relationship goals where you put yourself second in at least five situations, that is, in a list of ten. Notice how delighted you feel when you are not worrying about only your benefit and desires!
That is all we have on today’s post on how women fall in love. Was this helpful? Will you be recommending it to others too? If you have relationship queries that you would like to share with us, then please do so in the comment section below. Our experts will get back to ASAP.
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