Receive LOVE in your mailbox

Try our weekly newsletter with amazing tips to bring and retain love in your life

How To Use The Secret Law Of Attraction For Infinite Wisdom Of Love

“There is a truth deep inside of you that has been waiting for you to discover it, and that truth is this: you deserve all the good things that life has to offer.” – Rhonda Byrne, The Secret

It is hard for most people to feel the truth mentioned in this quote; the truth that they deserve the best in life. Most of us have a lot of complaints about ourselves, that we feel are preventing us from being truly successful. Maybe we’re not fit, or we’re too old. Maybe we’re not talented, or rich enough. But if you look closely, these thoughts become self-fulfilling prophecies, and we never get a chance to overcome them. And that is exactly what the law of attraction is all about – that like attracts like. By changing your thoughts, you can change your life, and one of the most powerful implementations of this is to use the secret law of attraction for the infinite wisdom of true love.

couple in love

Image source: Google, copyright-free image under Creative Commons License

Suggested read: 14 facts about infidelity that will totally surprise you

What is the Secret Law of Attraction?

Like we mentioned above, the Law of Attraction is a concept based on the theory that like attracts like. It means that by changing the direction of our thoughts, we can attract positive or negative things into our life. When you think about it, this is a very powerful concept. Imagine being able to control the opportunities that come to you and the things that happen to you!

law of attraction

Image source: Flickr

In fact, Rhonda Byrne says in her book, The Secret,

“There is no such thing as a hopeless situation. Every single circumstance of your life can change!”

The secret Law of Attraction may look like some newfangled thinking of the techie age, but in reality, it’s been around for a while. It’s true that the movie and the book, The Secret by Rhonda Byrne, took its popularity to a whole new level, and now we have the likes of Oprah Winfrey who swear by it.

How does the Secret Law of Attraction work?

the law of attraction1

Image source: Google, copyright-free image under Creative Commons License

According to the Law of Attraction, each one of us is unconsciously bringing into our lives today the result of the thoughts of several past years. So if you’re not in a place you’d like to be, think about it; did you think that you’d end up like this? Have you always been aware of your shortcomings and believe they are holding you back from your dream career, financial security or your soul mate? Well, you have your answer right there. Positive thoughts bring positive results, so when you rearrange your thinking patterns to believe that you are capable and deserving of good things, you get them!

The Secret talks about letting the Universe know about your innermost desires, for what you ask is what you get. You need to get that request out there, so that it can be worked upon and you get what you want. The Universe works in mysterious ways, but it ends up giving you what you asked for, through whatever means. It may sound improbable, but that’s really all there is to it – believe and receive.

Suggested read: Are YOU your relationship’s worst enemy?

Does the Secret Law of Attraction work for love?

This is what everyone wants to know! After all, love is not like everything else like money or fame; it’s different. Remember in the movie Aladdin, when the genie says that he can offer many things but not love? Well, the secret Law of Attraction is not like the genie; it does promise you the infinite wisdom of true love. If you’re wondering how to use the secret law of attraction for love, here are some steps to simplify the process.

1. Know what you want

“Remember that your thoughts are the primary cause of everything.”

couple in love

Image source: Google, copyright-free image under Creative Commons License

Before you ask the Universe for love, you need to know what to ask for. And for this, you first need to know yourself – your strengths and your weaknesses. After all, you and your soul mate should complement each other in every way and you should be able to bring out the best in each other. This will help you create an image of your ideal mate – what you actually desire in him/her. You need to be very specific, down to the last detail, so take your time. Use lessons learnt from past experiences to help you write down what you absolutely want, what you certainly do not want, and what you’re okay with, since your core values should be in sync with that of your mate. In this step, be aware that you are asking for the mate you want, not one that others expect you to have.

2. Make the intention

“Ask once, believe you have received, and all you have to do to receive is feel good.”

woman contemplating

Image source: Google, copyright-free image under Creative Commons License

Now that you know what you want, you need to tell the Universe. Yes, the Universe is miraculous and should know what you’re thinking, but actually asking is required to set the ball rolling. You can do it anytime or any place you want, but it has to be when you’re unhurried and not consumed by any kind of stress. You need to put all your focus into making your request, just the way you want it. The time just before you leave for work, or when you’ve fought with your boss aren’t ideal for this. Preferably, do it during meditation or prayer, before bed, or as soon as you wake up. Feel the intention throughout your entire being, ask for what you want, and let the universe do its job.

3. Visualize your future

“Your imagination is an extremely powerful tool.”

woman thinking

Image source: Google, copyright-free image under Creative Commons License

The power of visualization isn’t something to take lightly. Visualize in complete detail how your life will be with your soul mate; where you’ll live, where you’ll go on your honeymoon, how your home will look like, how many kids and grandkids you’ll have – you get the idea. It is essential that you focus only on positive thoughts and not on thoughts of having to do the dishes! Visualize like you can see it happening in front of you, like a movie. And don’t hold yourself back here; bring out all your innermost desires; you deserve the life you want.

4. Keep renewing your intention

“Your power is in your thoughts, so stay awake. In other words, remember to remember.”

vision board

Image source: Flickr

Making your intention once and sending it out to the Universe is what kickstarts the process, but to keep your focus stable, you need to renew your intention – every day, if possible. A great way to do this is by creating a vision board and placing it where you can see it every day. Find a picture of an unknown person who most closely resembles your soul mate, along with any images related to the visualization exercise outlined in the previous step. You can create this board online as well, using tools like Pinterest, but it’s always better to have it in tangible form, in a physical place. Also, the act of cutting out the pictures and using your hands makes you more involved in attracting the exact person you want. Renewing your intention helps to always keep that goal at the top of your mind.

5. Stay away from negative experiences

“When you want to attract something into your life, make sure your actions don’t contradict your desires.”

woman happy

Image source: Pixabay, under Creative Commons License

When you’re in the process of manifesting something positive like the infinite wisdom of true love and a soul mate, you need to keep yourself free from negativity. To begin with, avoid sharing your manifestation process with people who might not understand you or the process. They may mock you or sound skeptical, which can make you doubt yourself and the power of the Universe – and this can be the end of your manifestation. Also, stay away from toxic personalities and situations, and even stop reading the news if it upsets you.

Suggested read: 12 definite signs you’re in a relationship with a real man

6. Open your life to happiness

“It is impossible to bring more into your life if you are feeling ungrateful about what you have.”

woman smiling

Image source: Google, copyright-free image under Creative Commons License

It’s simple: unless you get rid of something old, you can’t make space for the new. You need to create space in your heart and life for true love, and it can only happen by getting rid of all hanging relationships and negative emotions. Don’t crowd your life with worry and insecurities; let it all go and declutter your mind. Another important requirement to successfully manifest anything is to be grateful for what you have now. Appreciate all your current blessings, be thankful and enjoy them to the fullest, so that you are always in a positive state of mind.

7. Believe

“See the things that you want as already yours.”

woman smiling

Image source: Google, copyright-free image under Creative Commons License

Finally, just trust in the Universe and believe that your true love is on his way right now. Accept this fact completely and act as if he’s arriving tonight; keep an extra brush and towel in the bathroom, set another plate for dinner, buy two packs of cookies. You’re doing this because it is going to happen!! There is no place for doubt with the law of attraction, just complete and utter belief. Don’t worry about how it’s going to happen or how long it’s going to take; just trust that it will come.

To completely manifest the infinite wisdom of love with the secret laws of attraction, you’ll need to be very involved and not take it as a joke. Being inspired in the beginning and then letting doubt creep in will not work. Like the saying that life happens when you’re making other plans; the Universe will surprise you at the moment you’re least expecting it; and it is bound to be more than just a pleasant surprise!!

Featured image source: Google, copyright-free image under Creative Commons License

Article Name
How To Use The Secret Law Of Attraction For Love
The Secret Law of Attraction can be used to change your life by manifesting anything you want - including undying love. All you have to do is BELIEVE!
Fabida Abdulla

Fabida Abdulla

Fabida is an erstwhile Software Engineer and current Freelance Writer cum stay-at-home mom to her boisterous 6-year-old. In between all the writing, baking, nagging, reading, and cuddling, she manages to blog a bit about her crazy life at Shocks and Shoes. []