Have you just scored yourself a girlfriend who also likes the company of women (you know what I mean!)? Now, that can be a heck of a ride! But are you prepared to embark on that? Let us take that up in some other article, okay? Today, we are discussing the signs of a bisexual woman, so that you can determine whether or not your girlfriend is one.
Imagine all the extra adventures that will certainly enrich your sex life if your S.O. is, indeed, without a doubt, channeling her inner feminine-loving side, with you present of course!
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Here are 9 signs that your fantasies of a threesome might come true soon! 😉
1. Open admiration for the ladies!
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Women are usually appreciative of each other! Nah, I am lying! We are not, though we may pretend to be! Anyway, if your girlfriend appreciates women, especially for their sex appeal, there is a chance that she is a bisexual woman. Noticing women and commenting about how they look, how sexy they are, etc., are signs of a bisexual woman; bisexual and proud, because otherwise she wouldn’t flaunt it publicly, eh?!
It is possible that she is only admiring other women because she respects them and has a high regard for their grit or maybe sense of fashion or the way they carry themselves. Nonetheless, sexual attraction is a different story. Admiration for sex appeal shows that she could be open to a lot more!
2. The feelings are deep and way beyond “good looks”
Like I told you, it is normal for people to look at someone and compliment them, if they look pretty or hot, even if they belong to the same sex. Don’t women go girl-crushing over female superstars? Now that does not mean all of us are bisexuals, right? Though that wouldn’t be a bad thing? 😉
So, my point is, if your girl’s feelings for the ladies is beyond looks and revolves around real strong attraction and emotions, there is a possibility that she might be bisexual.
3. She goes out of her way to be close to women
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Does your girlfriend constantly try to strike up conversations with women, and when at it, she keeps it interesting to her best ability? Exactly the way she does when speaking with you. Now, this is one of the signs of a bisexual woman.
Going out of one’s way to interact, to sit next to, to sound and look interesting and interested, you know the drill, right? If she is constantly calling, texting (dirty, maybe), and mailing girlfriends and plenty of them, and also not keeping it a secret from you, she is definitely a proud bisexual lady! Also, she might joke about the fact that she is trying to get some of these women into bed with her. Jokes are usually used by witty people to drop hints before they openly admit the true story. You got to be smart to pick those hints and act accordingly.
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4. She will tell you about her past experiences every now and then
So does she refer to her past experiences about being with other women? If she has already done it once before she met you, there are chances that still wants to engage in something like that. Sexual orientations are not under anyone’s control, right? Could you control getting attracted to her? So don’t blame her for the same.
However, if she hasn’t talked about it yet, give it some time; it will definitely be brought up sooner than later. May be she did it just because everyone was doing it in college, and so she got enticed. That’s why we think you should let her come up with her part of the story. If she is a proud bisexual woman, she is more than likely to not give you any confession (and why should she?), but state it bluntly. You might have to probe into the matter to know what you want. But be careful while doing the same.
5. Notice her mood around you and around women
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Assessing the mood will help you know if your girlfriend is bisexual or not. Men tend to be more overt when it comes to expressing their affection or mere interest in someone. The same is not true for women.
So, does she become giddy with joy when with some women in your circle; the same super happiness that she exhibits when she is with you? Also, does she get jealous when someone else flirts with these women that we are talking about? Jealousy is a stronger emotion and a better revealing indicator when you want to know what someone is up to, romantically!
6. Watch out for the way in which her eyes move when with women
Persistent eye contact is a way to get an intimate connection started. And of course, the best way to flirt! If you have caught her looking into the eyes of women in your circle and the shying away blushingly, chances are she is interested in them and is proudly pursuing these ladies. Trying to create a zone of intimacy, isn’t she? Locking eyes isn’t something that people do with friends!
7. She may be saying it all through her fashion sense!
I know stereotyping people is wrong, okay? But, sometimes, that is the best way to pick up hints about people, especially if they are trying to drop some through their style!
If your girlfriend is homosexual, she is most likely to go for an androgynous look. A suit tie combo can spell out the bisexual vibe. Do keep an eye for the rainbow accessories that she has been wearing lately to show that she is out of the closet as a bisexual, but you failed to notice! Short fingernails is also a sign. Nonetheless, remember that these aren’t sure fire signs. Style is an individual thing; the way people express who they are and that naturally differs from person to person.
8. She enjoys woman-on-woman erotica and p*rn
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Has she suggested to you that she enjoys watching adult videos and movies that are about women making out or maybe a mixed one with a man and two women? If yes, there are high chances that your woman is bisexual. To be really honest, it is possible that since most adult movies are directed for a man’s pleasure where women are treated as objects merely, your girlfriend, like other women, enjoys watching porn that show sexual appreciation for women; one where the pleasures of women are given more importance and certainly more time. But if while watching such videos, your girlfriend has come up with this idea (a couple of times now) of how she wants to engage in a similar sexual activity, she is proudly telling you about her sexuality. She is telling you that she imagines herself in that scenario and thinks that it would be rather pleasurable. Now that is quite a hint, wouldn’t you say?!
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9. Her fantasies also involve sex with women and she is quite vocal about the same
What does she fantasize about when she is pleasing herself or when she is making love to you? That can speak volumes of her sexual preferences. Are her fantasies powered with thoughts of two women doing it? Is she open to experimentation and wants to give it a try, and is trying to coax you into it as well? May be she just wants to try it once, but who knows, this might just add fuel to the fire and get her more confident about who she is and what she wants. That however, is good for your relationship because pretending to be someone you are not is not going to help either of you.
Before I leave you to decide whether your girlfriend is bisexual or not, there is something that your attention needs to be drawn to; the difference between bisexual and bi-curious.
Someone who only wants to explore her sexuality through various sexual activities is a bi-curious woman. She might be bisexual or not. She may be unsure of it too. A bisexual woman, on the other hand, will be quite visibly attracted to both men and women and be proud of it. Sexuality is very fluid and it is natural; remember that before you take a decision.
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