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How To Spice Up Your Sex Life With Role Playing

Let’s face it, we love each other, but 365 nights a year of boring vanilla sex can become somewhat tiresome and tedious for your relationship. That is, for those of us who don’t spice it up in the bedroom.

Role playing with your partner is one way to add spice to your relationship and open the door to a world of fun, enjoyment, and pleasure in the bedroom. Role playing has never been easier than in 2016. Lingerie, adult toys, and online shopping sites provide us with a plethora of costumes, uniforms, and accessories, that shall leave your partner swimming in a sea of ecstasy. This month I’m a nurse, next I’m your hot older college teacher, and then I’m a naughty stepmom. In May, I’m a schoolgirl, and in June, I’m your barely legal babysitter! For between $30 and $90, you can reinvent yourself and take on a persona that you always wanted to be. Or, more importantly, what your partner always wanted you to be.

Guys love costumes and role playing as much as you like dressing up for a night out. Just like us, they fantasize on a regular basis.

1. A naughty nurse

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Being cared for and pampered by a nurse in high heels, a short pink mini skirt, stockings, suspenders, and a nurse’s uniform, is enough to turn any male on. Throw in a pink push up bra under your white nursing dress and apply some bright pink lipstick, and it’s now time to treat your ‘patient.’ Obviously, a stethoscope is needed to check his blood pressure and heart rate, which will no doubt be rising as you proceed to perform a full examination! Depending on how experienced you are as a nurse and on how sick he is, he may even require a full body massage and an oral examination. No matter how sick he is, I’m sure he will be up to it!

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2. The innocent babysitter

The exciting feature of role playing is that you can escape the mundane issues vying for your attention and transport yourselves into a fantasy world where you are both mentally and physically relaxed. Don’t get to relaxed though. Role playing is just as much fun for couples with children as it is for couples without them. How much fun would it be to put the children to bed, to quickly dress up, sneak out the back door and race around to the front door, ring the doorbell and greet him in a sexy schoolgirl outfit! Hi, your baby sitter has arrived! Again, any old schoolgirl outfit shall do; maybe spice it up with a push up bra, some makeup, perfume, a candy cane, and some knee-high socks and runners. Bend over for him and perform the cheergirl routine, if the mood suits. Every guy needs babysitting once in a while. He might need a beer, a head massage, a foot massage, and even a back massage. He might even want some of your candy as well!

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The ability to perform in front of your partner can be both personally satisfying and at times exhilarating. Arousing him not only boosts your confidence, but makes you feel increasingly secure within your relationship. Experimenting with unique role playing scenarios, having discussed them with him beforehand can alleviate the everyday constraints placed on your relationship. Whilst wanting to look sexy for him is important to you, it’s often difficult to set the time aside to focus on each other sexually. There are only so many bikini waxes and lingerie outfits you can purchase. On the other hand, role playing, even on an infrequent basis, enables you to explore your sexual fantasies together as a couple and experience intimate moments that are yours to keep forever.

All you have to do is take the first step. “Hey, honey. Be honest – have you ever fantasized about having your own private babysitter for a night? Would it be okay if she was a college student?”  See how you go. You may just find that there’s more to role playing than acting!

Good luck!

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How To Spice Up Your Sex Life With Role Playing
Role playing is one of the easiest and most interesting ways of spicing it up in the bedroom. Just try it once, and you won't regret it! ;)
Sasha Holden

Sasha Holden

Sasha Holden burst onto the literary scene in 2015. Her short stories quickly evoked passion within her fan base who related instantly to her unique brand of eroticism. The ability to engage the reader on both an emotional and physical level provided the key to her success. A renowned poet in her own right, Sasha released her first literary novel entitled “Sarah” Malcolm’s Prize on Amazon in mid-2015 to much critical acclaim within the erotic fiction industry. Like Sarah, her leading female characters more often than not lonely, yet longing to explore their innermost desires sexually. Her stories enter the most intimate corners of her characters’ minds, leaving no stone unturned in their quest for pleasure. The need for my eroticism to arouse readers on every level, as they turn the pages, is my ultimate goal as a writer. Sasha has a strong following in the UK and India, as well as her home base of US. She is now a published author with Moon and stars press.